DaddystsPrincess
07-04-2009, 08:21 PM
hi, I'm a pre-op transsexual, most in my family are ambivalent but mostly not too thrilled about my transition (i.e. they dont like it but they can't say anything because they're aware it's my life not theirs)
except my uncle, he is very open and accepting of me and is the only family member to call me by my legally changed name. it all started when he bought a new computer and wanted me to give him lessons on how to use it, one of the lessons was, "how can I properly conceal my porn stash so people don't easily stumble across it" so as I was moving his porn folders to a thumb drive I noticed about 90% of the women on there look similar, he goes for the dark haired pale skin green eyed 'nerdy' types who wear glasses.....in short, they kinda look like me (except none of his porn is t-girl porn). also, he is very open about sexual discussions with me (asking me, what I do with a guy ect) and always follows those discussions with "of course this is all between you and me and doesn't need to be repeated to your mother"
in response to this, I've been subtlety flirting with him, a smile here, a toss of the hair there, the occasional touching his hand or shoulder or the like, he does not seem taken aback by these actions
my question is twofold, 1) am I reading more into this than is really there? I dont want to go down a potentially explosive path if that path is a dead end and 2) if I'm not what advice would you all offer to step up my game? I've considered emailing some racy pics of myself with the note "for your collection" but that's a bit too much of a step
except my uncle, he is very open and accepting of me and is the only family member to call me by my legally changed name. it all started when he bought a new computer and wanted me to give him lessons on how to use it, one of the lessons was, "how can I properly conceal my porn stash so people don't easily stumble across it" so as I was moving his porn folders to a thumb drive I noticed about 90% of the women on there look similar, he goes for the dark haired pale skin green eyed 'nerdy' types who wear glasses.....in short, they kinda look like me (except none of his porn is t-girl porn). also, he is very open about sexual discussions with me (asking me, what I do with a guy ect) and always follows those discussions with "of course this is all between you and me and doesn't need to be repeated to your mother"
in response to this, I've been subtlety flirting with him, a smile here, a toss of the hair there, the occasional touching his hand or shoulder or the like, he does not seem taken aback by these actions
my question is twofold, 1) am I reading more into this than is really there? I dont want to go down a potentially explosive path if that path is a dead end and 2) if I'm not what advice would you all offer to step up my game? I've considered emailing some racy pics of myself with the note "for your collection" but that's a bit too much of a step