Very Interested in Being with Mom

[ADHouston]

Ok guess it's time to tell my story. For the past 4 yrs I've been thinking about being with my mom sexually. It's definately gone into my fantasy chats and several several uh....personal sessions, hehe.

I'm starting to think I'm not getting any younger (34) and neither is she (58) and I want to try and approach this in a real capacity now.

Long story short my mom is very very gorgeous, she's gone quite a few years of non sex because she found out my dad had picked up some STD (not sure which one) and she cut him off for fear she might get infected with an STD as well. They are still together and what not but she just absolutely gives him nothing and I don't think she ever did persue seeking a lover on the side.

I'm not sure how to approach bringing the topic up of offering myself to her since I can offer her the safety w/o her having to bumble about meeting someone new, checking to see if they are clean and all, etc. She's still a pretty sexual being to me, I've even been over there visiting and found her lingerie and stockings and stuff while helping out around the house when dad is working out of town or very busy running his business.

Bottom line, If I found a way to re-opening the dialogue she once had of finding a lover on the side, and offering myself for that, I would absolutely fuck her and do everything with her she wanted to try.

I'm just, well, not sure what direction to start in.

heh anyone out there in a similar situation?

[texson]

i suggest that you take her out to dinner and dancing. a couple of drinks and some close dancing will do wonders to open the discussion with you and her. best of luck. mom and i have been together 34 yrs now.

[Iowa Guy]

Ok guess it's time to tell my story. For the past 4 yrs I've been thinking about being with my mom sexually. It's definately gone into my fantasy chats and several several uh....personal sessions, hehe.

I'm starting to think I'm not getting any younger (34) and neither is she (58) and I want to try and approach this in a real capacity now.

Long story short my mom is very very gorgeous, she's gone quite a few years of non sex because she found out my dad had picked up some STD (not sure which one) and she cut him off for fear she might get infected with an STD as well. They are still together and what not but she just absolutely gives him nothing and I don't think she ever did persue seeking a lover on the side.

I'm not sure how to approach bringing the topic up of offering myself to her since I can offer her the safety w/o her having to bumble about meeting someone new, checking to see if they are clean and all, etc. She's still a pretty sexual being to me, I've even been over there visiting and found her lingerie and stockings and stuff while helping out around the house when dad is working out of town or very busy running his business.

Bottom line, If I found a way to re-opening the dialogue she once had of finding a lover on the side, and offering myself for that, I would absolutely fuck her and do everything with her she wanted to try.

I'm just, well, not sure what direction to start in.

heh anyone out there in a similar situation?

Thats prob the best approch, just bring it up in casual conversation and offer your services. It may be rejected at first but her minds on it, it'll eventually come down to why not, after they have a little time to think about it. Just bring it up again, once in a while. I'm here for you Mom.

[Iowa Guy]

A lot of women, just coming out of a divorce or a monogamous relationship want to explore their sexuallity. They have desires just like men do, they want to be fucked, try different things that weren't allowed when they had only one option.

Women, just like men want, to be a slut, a whore, they want to dress sexy, dance, they want everything that men want. Most just don't want to admit it.

Don't take offence to what I say, but I think its true if only for a short time.

[brianj1949]

Entertain her for a day,.lunch, a movie. And find out what physical touch she will tolerate...literally start by holding her hand. Bring her home for drinks. Embrace her and let your hand wander just a little, testing her out.

[Mimi71]

ADHouston,

You are in a remarkable position, not only emotionally but also in meaning and purpose. You’ve recognized that time is working against the both of you, and I can tell you’ve really put some thought into this. I know how agonizing it must be to cope with this for nearly four long years. Your heart must ache…

Each woman’s needs are unique and unequaled to any other, and only YOU know what she likes and dislikes. There really isn’t any set formula or plan that is sure proof, honey… its something that has to come from within… from the heart. I think that being 34 is definitely on your side, and you have obviously reached a point in your life to know what you want, and why.

First and foremost, ask yourself… can you see yourself with her 10 or 20 years down the road? What I mean by that is be prepared for something long term. We ladies want to know that one’s love is forever and everlasting… son or no son-- love, TRUE love is what we seek. You must first ask yourself if you are actually ready to be the ONLY man in your sweet mother’s life. And if that love is realized, then be prepared for how deep it can truly go. A mother and son’s commitment is unlike anything else on earth, period.

Warm up to her… go into it with no expectations. Make her happy with things that no other man can do for her, then… and only when you feel that it is time, tell her. Just flat out tell her… its obvious that you’ve been through hell the last four years, so go into it with the mindset that you have nothing to lose. Trust me, if its from the heart, we women WILL listen… explain to her the excruciating torment you’ve been through, and how hard it is… paint her the picture in the arms of honesty, and I can guarantee you she will at least consider it.

The shock of it may split you both apart for a while, but once the dust settles, she will come around. BUT BE PREPARED FOR IT. Don’t beat yourself up over it because she ran off, or hung up on you, or whatever… this is a perfectly natural reaction and is to be expected. Let her have her own room, and give her plenty of space… then, after you feel that enough time has passed, comfort her with whatever brings her joy… she won’t write you off forever, so don’t let that scare you. A mother’s love could never be extinguished by her choice… trust me.

A mother’s heart is worth fighting for and working for, if one has the patience and courage to work at it, and make it a reality. Set your own needs and wants aside and make her the most important woman in your life, sweetie. Really… your needs will be fulfilled by her anyway if it all works out.

A good mother knows honesty in her son’s eyes… and if you work hard enough at it, believe me, the victory is soooooo worth it.

Let us know what happens. I’m cheering for you!

Peace and Love,

~Mimi