Ok, I told my mom I want to have sex with her

[blowjob]

Last night I was drunk and horny and started fantasizing about having my moms huge tits in my face and fucking her wet pussy. Anyway, I called her and told her that over the last 2-3 years i've wanted to have sex with her. She said "oh i've heard of that. Some boys want that". So being drunk I just repeated the same thing, to which she replied "that would never happen". She didn't sound angry or anything. I then asked her how often she has sex with my dad and she said they haven't had sex lately because he got cancer.

I woke up the next morning and I was freaking out over what I told her. I was embarrassed and just decided to pretend like I don't remember a thing from last night. Well the first thing that she did when I came home was walk up to me and say "were you telling me the truth about wanting to have sex with me?" I just looked at her like I didn't know what she was talking about. Well she was like "oh you don't remember anything do you?". I said "not really".

So now when I am around her everything is really weird. I still want to have sex with her. SHe has a nice ass and 36DD tits, and i'm sure her pussy would feel very nice.

What should I do now? Will she make a sexual move on me sometime?

I regret telling her this, but at the same time I want to believe that I set the wheels in motion.

Edit: I really hope she doesn't tell my father, brother, or sister what i told her...that would embarrass me for the rest of my life.

[NormalGuy]

I don't know what her tone was when she asked if you were telling the truth, but if there was no anger behind it, you could have given her an apologetic truth and seen her reaction.

I think she will not make a move because you dismissed it the next day. You really want something to happen it has to come from you.

Now you can't even ask her to keep it between you two, because you don't remember the night.

[blowjob]

Her tone had some anger in it when she confronted me the next day. Later on when she was talking to me she just talked like everything was ok. I remember telling her on the phone not to tell anybody, so hopefully she will keep it a secret.

Even though I denied it the next day, I'm pretty sure she knows that I remember it. I've bee peeking at her in the shower and changing for years and I really want to have sex with her.

I'm 20, she just turned 57.

[NormalGuy]

How loving are you with her? hugs? kisses?
If not much I suggest you start with that give her big warm hugs, and soft kisses. compliment her on how she looks.

If you already do this, than be a little more sensual, like hugging her from behind and kiss her on her neck, see if she enjoys it.

[Iowa Guy]

I always wonder what some of these posters are like. Sometimes I envision young nerdy guys still living at home that have almost no experience with sex and are mostly afraid of females. Not afraid in the I'm going to get killed sense, but in the I don't know what do or how to approach them sense.

The first mistake was the denial, but you can recover from that. Just admit to her that you do remember and that what you said was true, but you're so embarrassed. Then apologize. You've got her mind on it and a dialog opened up. See where that leads to.

[blowjob]

ok well she came up to me again and asked me if I remember what I told her that night. Again I said I did not, but I'm pretty sure that she knows that I do remember. She said that I wasn't THAT drunk when I was talking to her.

And today she was talking to me in the hallway and I was just staring at her DD's out of the corner of my eye. GOD I just want to stuff her warm hairy pussy.....

The next time she brings it up, i'll be like "ok, yes, I do remember!" And then I'll feel her out to see where she wants to go with it.

My relationship with her isn't that great. She pisses me off and we argue a lot. I didn't get laid for the first time till I was 19, so all of those horny years I was just fantasizing about titty fucking her o whatever. From what I understand, you need to be really close with your mom and you need to have real good communication with her in order for this to work. Well my communication with her isn't that great. Plus she is REALLY close with my older brother and sister so I think there might be a chance that she might tell them what we did.

[NormalGuy]

You had your second chance to sort it out and pick her brain on what she was thinking when she came to you again. And again you dismissed it. Now you want a wait till she asks a third time? Not the best plan, I think, but only you know the way things are going down.

If you really want this to happen you should change the attitude towards her.

The only suggestion I have for you is think up the best way to tell her you remember what you said and meant it. be sweet with her, apologetic or something, to keep the respect in the conversation... She's your mother you should know the best approach. Think on why she is really close to your brother and sister.

[barbiemom]

My relationship with her isn't that great. She pisses me off and we argue a lot. I didn't get laid for the first time till I was 19, so all of those horny years I was just fantasizing about titty fucking her o whatever. From what I understand, you need to be really close with your mom and you need to have real good communication with her in order for this to work. Well my communication with her isn't that great. Plus she is REALLY close with my older brother and sister so I think there might be a chance that she might tell them what we did.

Hi BJ
A question, do you live at home? is it that you and your mom are in close proximity a lot?

[blowjob]

yes I still live at home. I want to have intercourse with her only because of physical attraction and the whole "taboo" idea turns me on.

She just annoys me because she generally doesn't listen when people talk and you have to repeat yourself to her over and over again. Plus she has proven that she can't be trusted. I've told her secrets in the past and she has told my older sister and some of my aunts.

I think i'm going to keep denying this. In all honesty I love her as a mother but I just never got along with her. I think having sex would only screw things up more.

[barbiemom]

Any chance of having a heart to heart talk with her?

[Brad30]

yes I still live at home. I want to have intercourse with her only because of physical attraction and the whole "taboo" idea turns me on.

She just annoys me because she generally doesn't listen when people talk and you have to repeat yourself to her over and over again. Plus she has proven that she can't be trusted. I've told her secrets in the past and she has told my older sister and some of my aunts.

I think i'm going to keep denying this. In all honesty I love her as a mother but I just never got along with her. I think having sex would only screw things up more.

Maybe you're right...but maybe you've also never told her that it hurt you when she breached your trust. Even if she should know that without your telling her, there are good reasons to give voice to it.

Trust is a two-way street and it requires that both people leave themselves somewhat vulnerable...maybe your physical attraction is actually an opportunity to become closer and have her treat you more like you would like her to treat you generally.

She really does seem to be reaching out to you here -- and if you read the signals, I kind of think she's giving you an opening -- and you've kind of slapped her hand away twice...

So in a sense, she's trusted you enough to let you see that she's intrigued...and in a sense that also left her vulnerable.

Ultimately, maybe you're not ready for it...but honestly, I'd be willing to bet that she probably is...or was....

[NormalGuy]

I wish you the best of luck in having a better relationship with her.

[ozman_jb]

Your situation is complicated by the fact that your father has cancer. This may be why there was some anger in her tone. You are putting her in a tough place, and is angry that you made her think and feel guilty about something she wants. My advice is to hold off until the situation with your father has resolved it self.

[Bigswingin]

I agree... I think she is opening the door... and you keep slamming it closed...
I would confess and see what happens... worse case is she says no... and you kinda have fingured that... if she says yes... lucky you.

[blowjob]

Damn...well every night i find myself fantasizing about going into her room and just screwing with her for like 30 minutes, grabbing her big tits and squeezing her ass. I'm so damn curious as to how good her vagina would feel on my dick. God I want it so bad.

If she doesn't bring it back up again I may subtly say something along the lines of, "well I just remembered what I said to you that night. I feel awful about saying it but I think it might be true."

I don't know. What should I say to her? Should I wait for her to say something. I want it so badly.

[maleho66]

You say you don't trust her, but you lied to her at least twice, by denying that you said it or you remember saying it, not you want to tell her you remember it?

As the saying goes, sometimes the fantasy is better than the reality. It sounds more like you want to get your aggression out with or on her, more than "simply" having a taboo relationship, because it sounds like a fun idea. Frankly it's sounding like it's bordering on something else. If you want this kind of relationship with her, even once, then there has to be trust, and that's not there for either of you.

[johnct3]

I think if you want it badly you have to not care. And then it will come. But I think telling her something like "remember what I told you, I feel bad" kind of thing is actually a really good idea. Maybe it will open the door for you or maybe it will make you change your mind. Don't ever be afraid to live. You can make it happen if you trully want to. It is up to you in the end.

[indiman1000]

I think you should move out of the house,get a regular girlfriend,,maybe an older woman you can roleplay with.You'r playing with fire otherwise.

[parimaga]

Well, what is the situation now. Whether you deny it or pretend your mom knows your intentions. As you are staying at home, you have the chance if you properly handle things, very carefully. Sorry to know about your father's health but that may turn out to be the gateway. So try seducing your mother. Win her trust first. Be handy and always available for her day to day chores and I am sure she will open up one day. Till such time, be happy with your fantasies and believe me those are good. All the best.

[felate]

Opening up to a girlfriend saying you want her to roleplay as mom is a surefire way that she wont stay your Gf for long...

[tango31us]

best of luck to you

[gmr61]

Be very careful so you dont permanently ruin any chance of a normal relationship with your mother.

I doubt if she is shocked or offended even if she sounded that way. Adult women know that males, including family members like sons and brothers, have fantasies and urges. And im sure she knows the alcohol loosened up your tongue a bit.

[DannyBoyUK]

I agree with felate - the reason I've not been with many women is that I cannot bring myself to admit to them what all my sexual fantasies involve. I fear I would get to the brink of sex and then "oh by the way can you pretend I'm your naughty son" would bring things to a very rapid halt.