my sister and i

[tommy38]

A LONG time ago when we were kids (she is 2 years older) we did fool around a little and we tried to have sex but didnt know how because we were to little but she seemed to have "forgotten" it as if i tried anything (which i haven't for many years) she would be non-responsive (although i dont think she told me to stop). When we were kids she always initiated it. she liked to make out with me. Now i want to get things started with her but she has a boyfreind and im afraid if i try anything she will call the cops or tell him and he will call the cops or tell our mother what should i do?

[tommy38]

help

[Granpa69]

tommy38

This should be in the Incest Advice forum, not General Discussion, so I will move it over.

Granpa69
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[Iowa Guy]

She has not forgotten but she has chosen to make you think she has. Probably because she thinks its not appropriate. If you want to bring it up again, ask her if she remembers when she used to sexually abuse you. I realize thats mostly not a true statement but it should get a reaction from her.

[Iowa Guy]

My sister remembers when I tried to fuck her when I was young, we've talked about it. Another brother also tried about the time she was young. Its just about sex and most people don't care who's it with.

[amanda33]

My sister remembers when I tried to fuck her when I was young, we've talked about it. Another brother also tried about the time she was young. Its just about sex and most people don't care who's it with.

thats how it started wit me, when I was young I would wear just panties and my t-shirt around the house. and it drove my bro. nuts. it started with touching, my thighs them my breasts. then one night we took it further. we fucked for the first time that night.

[Zandantriel]

My sister remembers when I tried to fuck her when I was 14, we've talked about it. Another brother also tried about the time she was 14. Its just about sex and most people don't care who's it with.

If it's just about sex, wouldn't it be generally a hell of a lot easier to just date / fuck someone you don't have to risk getting in a lot of trouble for? Sure a sis lives with you so they're always around, but then you gotta put up with them the rest of the time you live at home until you move out if things go bad. Seems stupider to me cuz there's no escape clause. At least getting emotionally involved means you're less likely to have a psycho sis you have to live with when/if things go wrong.

[muffdiver]

As human beings, we have the tendency to change over the years as we get older. Our wants, needs and desires change over time.

My niece used to do things like that when she was 15 and 16, wearing almost no clothes around me trying to get me aroused. I never took the bait because of her age. As a matter of fact, she is the reason I got interested in the subject of incest, and eventually found this site.

She's 29 now, and if I meantioned these circomstances today, she would probably denie it ever happened.

My advise as the old saying goes is "Let sleeping dogs lie".

Muff

[muminlawslover]

A LONG time ago when we were kids (she is 2 years older) we did fool around a little and we tried to have sex but didnt know how because we were to little but she seemed to have "forgotten" it as if i tried anything (which i haven't for many years) she would be non-responsive (although i dont think she told me to stop). When we were kids she always initiated it. she liked to make out with me. Now i want to get things started with her but she has a boyfreind and im afraid if i try anything she will call the cops or tell him and he will call the cops or tell our mother what should i do?

Forget it.

[Hans]

She has a boyfriend.

What makes you think she's going to be interested in messing around with you when she's got him?

[Iowa Guy]

She has a boyfriend.

What makes you think she's going to be interested in messing around with you when she's got him?

Yeah, theres only one apple on that tree.

Thats the problem with the world today, just accept the truth, people like to fuck, why do people think they only have to fuck the same person over and over for the rest of their life. You don't go to only one restaurant and if you do you don't eat the same thing every time. You don't watch the same movie over and over again.

Sex with the same person gets boring. People seem to think they are the best at sex, "my pussy's the tightest, my dick is the best you'll ever need" bullshit.

All men and women fantasize about fucking others and not just one at a time.

The real problem is we just can't tell anyone what we really want.

[Anne4272]

Good Point, Iowa Guy.

[sarjil]

are u guys making up stories or did you people really have sex with your own relatives. and amanda33 u actually had sex with your brother is this real or is this some story u made up.

[Aizen_Sousuke]

Why join a forum like this if you have no interest or experience?

[Iowa Guy]

are u guys making up stories or did you people really have sex with your own relatives. and amanda33 u actually had sex with your brother is this real or is this some story u made up.

What the matter, you can't believe it happens, the plumbings all the same no matter if its relatives or not.

We raise our children and protect them from having sex until they reach the appropriate age and then its OK for them fuck other people. what a fucked up world, "No you can't fuck your relatives," "Daddy that nice boy next door want to go on a date with me. Thats nice honey see you when you get back."

[Martin1932]

are u guys making up stories or did you people really have sex with your own relatives. and amanda33 u actually had sex with your brother is this real or is this some story u made up.

You seem to be out of touch with the real world. Incest statistics are hard to cum by, but probably 1 in 10 of us has had at least been part of an incest experience at least once. More than 1 in 100 of us cohabitate with an incest partner and many have had healthy and intelligent children. The Census does not ask who are you sleeping with, or who is the daddy of little Jane or Dick.

Homosexuality, sodomy, fornication and adultery were not talked about, but if not legal in most jurisdictions, they are not persued by the legal system today. Perhaps incest will at some time in the future be granted the acknowledgement if not encouragement that gay marriage receives.

[Aizen_Sousuke]

I've always wondered why incest doesn't get the same sort of attention homosexuality does if it's as common as people say it is.

[Iowa Guy]

Homosexuality is semi accepted, while incest still carries the same burden as pedophilia. Some people think they are the same and everyone is fucking their underage children. Incest is most common in underage children, just coming into their sexuality,puberty and experimenting with others their age. I think it does often start when the females are under the legal age and the males are often older. The few people I have knowledge of are adult men and underage girls. Its not something you just bring up in the normal course of conversation. When it does come up in conversation most that are engaged in it will express disgust that it ever happens to anyone.

If you want to explore this theory, just ask one of your friends if hes ever thought about having sex with, (his sister,mother or daughter)

[tommy38]

She has not forgotten but she has chosen to make you think she has. Probably because she thinks its not appropriate. If you want to bring it up again, ask her if she remembers when she used to sexually abuse you. I realize thats mostly not a true statement but it should get a reaction from her.

i like that idea but what do i do after that? also if i say that wont she think i didnt enjoy it?

[Iowa Guy]

That suggestion was just a way to open the door to additional conversation. You could always add that you enjoyed it and have thought about continuing it.

I can't write the scripts or hold your hand all the way, use your imagination. I know its kinda scary, but no matter, it will work out one way or the other. You won't have to guess about it for the rest of your life or sit there 20 years from now wishing you had at least made a attempt at it.

I've been trying with my sister for the last 40 years, joking around telling, her I could help her out with her sex problems. Discussing what I'd tried long ago, what another brother had tried. A few years ago she told me she'd see what we could do to make my perversion (as she called it) come true. We live far apart so the opportunity hasn't come up yet.

Incest is just sex, its a fun thing, just recreational sex its not like you're going to get married and live together, make babies and really screw up the family tree, for the rest of your life.

Sex is something that was given to us to enjoy, then religion and politics got into it and really screwed it up, making it unholy and illegal. They turned it into something to be hidden, not talked about, done only in the dark of night behind closed doors and especially not something to do with relatives.