Need help approaching Mom

[KENNORI]

Hey there, I am 23yr old Male and i am living at Home while I go to college, My mom is 47 Shes single and I know hasn't gotten any in atleast 3 yrs. She is very open minded and I know loves sex, I have given her Massages in the past and She always has me stop soon into giving her one, I think it turns her on and she is ashamed or embarrassed. I'm looking for Advice on how to seduce her and or woo her, Plus any tips on broaching Incest to see how she reacts would be wonderful thank you.

[Iowa Guy]

A lot of sex starts with massages, she may be stopping you because you are too rough. Try gentle next time.

[Zandantriel]

What kind of massages are these? Are these shoulder-rubs, back massage, or sensual / sexual massage?

What kind of personality does she have? Since nearly everyone enjoys sex (when it is with the right person in the right context, of course), that doesn't tell us much. Is she lazy / energetic? Is she serious / silly and joking?

How close are the two of you in general? The best advice is normally to build a closer relationship (as with getting together with anyone), but without more information on what kind of person she is, its hard to give any specific advice.

[pblue1235]

You could tell your mom that incest came up in discussion at college. Either with other students or in one of your classes. You may get an indication right away on how she feels or you may be able to discuss it with her a little further. Don't spend too much time discussing it with your mother. You should continue with the massages. Also do other nice things for her. If the first time you brought up incest with you mom went well you could bring it up again in a few weeks. You could even bring it up during a massage. That way she is thinking about incest and may be getting aroused by the massage at the same time.

[Zandantriel]

Heh, I should have thought of that, being a fellow college student. Certainly a way to see what kind of reaction she has to it, if nothing else.

On the flip side, she may take it in a purely informational way rather than how she would feel about actually doing anything... Some people would say out of hand that incest is bad before considering what it would be like themselves. If you try it, let us know how it works for you.

[parimaga]

Thee are umpteen number of ways to make known your interest in her. You know your mom better and you can approach her in manners she likes it. Best thing wud be to drop subtle hints and watch her reactions. Approaching her like a novice wud not be a best approach. If want to have sex with her, approach like a man not like a toddler. All the best

[Zandantriel]

Thee are umpteen number of ways to make known your interest in her. You know your mom better and you can approach her in manners she likes it. Best thing wud be to drop subtle hints and watch her reactions. Approaching her like a novice wud not be a best approach. If want to have sex with her, approach like a man not like a toddler. All the best

Ehh... depends on the personality. Some moms prolly like the whole "oh, please, I want some comfort from a sweet older woman who cares and loves me" or some sickly sweet thing like that. Others would like to have a strong confident guy who can be macho and more controlling. Still others would want to feel like you're a strong-yet-caring new-age dude that is looking for an equal footing caring relationship.

Easiest to be yourself and learn what turns her on later ;)

[texson]

hey i think you should treat her like your best girlfriend. you know how you would seduce her, so do your mom the same way.

[ericwithlove]

Just dont push it or be too aggressive. Alot of times that is a turn off. If it happens , it happens. When it does be ready to take the lead. Obviously she likes massages and is a little up tight. Go online and read about the different massages and ask her if you can practice on her, and ask her to give you a massage. Remember to tell her how good it feels, and maybe let her catch a glimpse of your erection to let her know you are open and willing.

[Iowa Guy]

You could tell your mom that incest came up in discussion at college. Either with other students or in one of your classes. You may get an indication right away on how she feels or you may be able to discuss it with her a little further. Don't spend too much time discussing it with your mother. You should continue with the massages. Also do other nice things for her. If the first time you brought up incest with you mom went well you could bring it up again in a few weeks. You could even bring it up during a massage. That way she is thinking about incest and may be getting aroused by the massage at the same time.

Quit stealing my posts from other threads

[pblue1235]

Quit stealing my posts from other threads


I didn't steal any of your posts. I use the "heard it through the grapevine" scenario when I tell people how to bring up a subject to judge a person's reaction. I have used it for years in other groups I belong to.

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