Jen Again

[GrnMtSt7]

Since that night on the couch My daughter is calling me constantly. She has been up to my house 3 time in the last week. We have been on walks together but no further physical contact. She does bump into me often on walks and seems to be very happy around me.
I don't want to ruin our relationship but would stil like to know what her intentions are. I could use any advice you have.

[84sr34]

Again I ask you is there a wife in the picture? How old is she? Is she a student, does she live away from home and share living quarters with someone? Does she date anyone or have anyone special in her life? If she is older (mid 20's and has no one in her life) she may be looking to you for attention.
Try putting your arm around her shoulders as she bumps into you during your walks. Plant the seed in her mind by make her feel comfortable by your contact with her. Take it slow and try to make contact with her when you return from your walks and back in the confines of your home. Give her a hint that your interested.
Don't rely on the drinks too much in order to accomplish what you want. If she is on the same page as you things will happen.

[GrnMtSt7]

I have been divorced for 13 years. My daughter lives in her own apartment with her daughter. She is not married and doesn't have a boyfriend.

[84sr34]

Sounds like a great opportunity for you. Keep us posted

[what_up032003]

Yes keep us posted.

Is your daughter short of money? Maybe you could sugesst that her and her daughter could come back and move into your house to save on some cash as you would love the company!! or invite her over 3 nights a week for dinner and cook her some nice meals!! but make it regular nights so it becomes more of a routine. Candles, run baths for her, so she comes over to your house and gets a chance to relax and me treated like a lady should!!

Keep us posted!!

[what_up032003]

any updates?