Controlling erection

[Kevin Lewis]

When I am with my wife and we are starting foreplay I get an erection, whilst this is no bad thing in itself how can I have more control over it?
I have seen many movies and clips etc showing a man and woman doing all the foreplay stuff but it is not until they are just about to start having sex that he becomes hard. This is what I would like to be able to do, spend some time kissing and caressing with my naked wife but without having a raging erection.
I have tried all of the thinking about unerotic things method but because I know I'm only thinking about them to preempt sex my mind lets my body take control.
What can I do to keep my willy in oder?

Thanks in advance for any advice offered.

Mods, as this is not strictly incest related feel free to move it if you please.

[brotherone]

Kevin,

This is pretty much the body's normal reaction to stimulus. I'm no Sue Johanson, but I'd say learn to love it, because there's probably no controlling what's meant to be natural, or for that matter why'd you want to. She probably understands that this is how a man's body reaction to sexual stimulation, and has no issues with it herself. Is there some other underlying reason you haven't mentioned?

Cheers!

[ikem]

It is not direct related to your needs, but some tips may help you nevertheless:

How to Overcome Premature Ejaculation
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[Iowa Guy]

Try masturbating before the romance starts. Taking the edge off of the need. The second orgasm always takes longer, perhaps the second erection will be easier to control.