Getting Mother to Join In

[Turion]

My girlfriend recently told me she wanted my mother to join us in bed. However, we don't know how to go about even seeing if she's interested. We thought of maybe leaving some pictures of us out for her to find or leaving our door open when we 'think' she wasn't there during a visit, but not really sure. Any ideas/advice?

[nefesto]

your wife should start talking to your mother about your sex life. get her interested. that'll open the door...

[sighdream]

your wife should start talking to your mother about your sex life.

Espectially the parts about how (a) you are such a skilled, long lasting and considerate lover and (b) she just can't keep you satisfied.

A toss-away comment that she sometimes wishes she had someone close enough to share you with to keep you satisfied might plant a seed in the back of Mom's mind.

Trick is to get her to start asking wifie for details...

[Turion]

thanks for the advice guys

[nefesto]

hope that helped. any update?

[Turion]

nothing yet. we gotta wait a bit to try due to locations at the moment

[Turion]

we have, however, established the ground rules in case it ever does happen

[b4rry]

My girlfriend recently told me she wanted my mother to join us in bed. However, we don't know how to go about even seeing if she's interested. We thought of maybe leaving some pictures of us out for her to find or leaving our door open when we 'think' she wasn't there during a visit, but not really sure. Any ideas/advice?

I don't know your posting history, so please forgive me if the following is off the mark. However, others will red your question and start wondering about it in their lives, so a general answer is in line.

Generally, the big issue regarding getting a parent involved with a child's sex life is the parent's attitude towards incest. There will be no such involvement if the parent is against incest, so whatever approach is taken must either the prent thinking of that issue (e.g., the sex happening before the parent realizes the issues involved) or the parent's attitude toward incest must change first.

The next hurdle to get past is the parent's attitude towards engaging there's another person present and perhaps participating.

Then there's the issue of that other person being of their own gender. (This probably would usually be the second or even first issue in cases where the parent is male.)

Additionally, most women exhibit their sexuality more often once their feelings towards someone grows to include the possibility of a physical expression thereof. (Contrast that to men, wherein sexuality often largely precedes deep feelings.)

This last point is likely to be key to making your fantasy come true since once your mother has feelings towards you that could include being sexual with you the rest is easier to fall in place. So approach her through relationship building.

[fashox]

i agree with nefesto, depeding on how sexualy open your mother is, your wife should start having talks with her about your sex life, and once they build a comfort with eachother to talk about sex she should nonchalantly say your mom should join you guys sometime

[Turion]

my mother is very sexually open

[nefesto]

how so?

[Turion]

talks and jokes about anything sexual from standard shit to animals to incest to strange stuff just to see reactions and such

[nefesto]

hmm.. well maybe she's interested. whats the closest thing to showing interest that she's said and/or done

[Turion]

she's stood over me so I could see up her skirt and complimented my ass, and made jokes when I stood behind her that that's not a 'socially acceptable position for a mother and son', while laughing

[nefesto]

hmm... im not sure if thats showing interest, but she's probably open to the idea of incest

[JKM]

Just checking. It has been a week or so since you posted. I'm interested in how your plan is going with your mother. You might also try treating her like a girl friend. Compliment her on her appearance. If she tends to wear conservative clothing, suggest something more revealing, saying you would like to see her dressed like that. I guess what I am saying, you need to treat her like a girl friend and try to seduce her. Good Luck!

JK

[Turion]

she wears tank tops and short shorts. it's a slow process

[Bolivar]

she wears tank tops and short shorts. it's a slow process

Mmm... tank tops and short shorts would speed up whatever process I was engaged in, I think...

[JKM]

It has been over a month now, has there been eny progress? You have been getting excellent advise. Hope it works out for all of you. In the meantime, let us know what is happening!

JKM

[goodson]

Well i feel mom son relation is special so u have to treat her like a gf or close frnd

[Turion]

we've been taking it slow. probing to see if she shows interest. we're not in a massive hurry, we're letting it happen naturally

[JKM]

It has been some time since you have posted. How are things going? Hopefully, by now there has been a threesome with your mother joining in. Good Luck!

JKM

[Horny old man]

I realize how difficult this entire situation must be for you, nevertheless it seems that your gf has to initiate talking with your mom, since she has a desire for her (not that you don't) but it seems to me if mom will consider woman to woman and actually begin doing so - then it may just be easier to ease into the situation - either by catching them so to speak or by gf telling mom in a loving/lust situation that you have the hots for mom also. What can she do - deny that she was in such a sex filled situation with one, but not be willing to try the same with you too?
Another way is to role play - arguing with the gf so she can lean (emotionally then physically) on mom (imagine if the arguement was involving mom in your sex life?)?
Or you go to mom after the alleged arguement and lean on mom, in the same sort of way?
Hope all goes well no matter what you do. Please report to the group, etc.

[Turion]

been kinda on the backburner for a bit, been really busy and stressed with work at the moment. thanks for the advice, I'll keep you all informed

[Sisko]

Yes, but we're all in a hurry here. lol

[np01]

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